In 2008, Resourceful Internet Solutions, Inc., the parent company of Mediate.com, proudly published Peter Adler’s “Eye of the Storm Leadership: 150 Ideas, Stories, Quotes, and Exercises on the Art and Politics of Managing Human Conflicts.”
We liked Peter’s idea of writing a book on mediation as a leadership skill without ever using the often self-referencing word “mediation.” Each of Peter’s fifteen chapters started with an inspiring longer story, then offered ten shorter ideas that any leader can use regardless of whether he or she is coaching a volleyball team or chairing a contentious meeting of the local library board.
This year, ten years after its publication, we have invited Peter to excerpt and update one chapter each month for our readers. As always comments are welcome. Peter’s “Eye of the Storm” book remains available for purchase here.
The Exceptional Power of Vision
There are many keys to reaching possible agreement. The list includes, among others, discovering not incompatible interests, soothing a hurt relationship, or finding a common enemy. Uncovering a transcending vision can accelerate and amplify the coming together of contending parties. Vision helps achieve agreement.
Located twenty degrees north of the equator in the center of the Pacific Ocean, Hawai?i is the most geographically isolated place in the world. It is more than two thousand, five hundred miles from the nearest major landmass and was one of the last places on earth to be discovered and populated.
At a time when Europeans cleaved close to their coasts for fear of falling off the edge of the world and being gobbled up by sea monsters, Polynesians were crisscrossing the Pacific on epic voyages of discovery and colonization. They came to Hawai?i in two waves, the first from the Marquesas approximately 500 AD, the second from Tahiti a thousand years later. For a time, there were voyages back-and-forth over the equator. Then, the technologies and lore of open-ocean voyaging were forgotten.
But not the memory of them…
In the mid-1970s, a group of young native Hawaiians and maritime scholars calling themselves the Polynesian Voyaging Society revived the art. The canoe they built, called the Hokule‘a, was named for the star Arcturus that passes directly over the Island of Hawai’i. Guided by illustrations from early European journals and oral information from ancient chants and legends, Hokule‘a was built using traditional materials, methods, and tools. Unfortunately, no present-day Hawaiians remembered how to navigate in the old manner.
The intrepid canoe group turned to a man named Mau Piailug, a traditional navigator from remote Satawal Island in the Carolines of Micronesia. They asked him for two things: help them make the initial voyage from Hawaii to Tahiti and teach a new generation of smart and passionate Hawaiians how to sail by the stars, swells, sun, moon, and the taste of seawater in different parts of the Pacific.
More than a dozen young Hawaiians, all skilled watermen, were tutored by Mau, among them Nainoa Thompson, the man who would eventually become Hokule‘a’s first Hawaiian navigator. Nainoa tells the story of his tutoring with Mau Piailug this way.
One day after months of intensive training, Mau asked me to join him early one morning at a place called Lanai Lookout. From that place on the eastern side of Oahu you can see at least two and sometimes even three other islands if the weather is good: Molokai, Maui, and Lanai. It is also near a channel called Kealaikahiki which means `The Road to Tahiti.’ Standing there in the sunrise, Mau asked me some odd questions.
First he asked me how I felt. I told him I was nervous but happy with all that I was learning. He smiled and then a little while later he asked me to point to Tahiti, which I did. Finally, after a time, he said: ‘Nainoa, can you see Tahiti?’
For a long time, I didn’t answer. Then finally I said: ‘I can see it in my mind.’
Mau was quiet for a time and then he said, ‘Nainoa, you need to hold that picture in your mind because there will be days at sea when you are trying to find Tahiti and you won’t see anything. Maybe you’ll be in a storm, or in a fog, or maybe you will be sitting in the doldrums waiting for the wind. Maybe the crew will be agitated or preoccupied. No matter what, the only thing that will keep you on course is whatever picture you have in your mind.’
The most interesting thing about it was that was the last day of my training.”
A few days later, Nainoa and his crew left for Tahiti and successfully completed the first such voyage in more than a thousand years.
That initial voyage of the Hokule‘a, along with subsequent ocean journeys to other corners of the Polynesian Triangle — the Marquesas, New Zealand, and Easter Island — had significant ripple effects. In fact, it put in train a “Hawaiian Renaissance,” a cultural revival of dance, chant, carving, song-making, lei-making, and language study. It also launched a political movement.
Influenced by the civil rights struggles of Blacks, Hispanics, and Native Americans, Hawaiians gained new confidence and pride in confronting their own disenfranchisement. Seeing the billions of dollars and forty million acres of land that had been awarded to native Alaskans, they pressed for reparations and sovereignty measures in Congress. Their fight continues.
Oceans are the primordial soup and perpetual incubators of life. Plants, animals, and ideas move around, combine, re-circulate, and ultimately splice off to create new species. Not all survive but evolution tends to produce remarkable and enduring results.
Around the states and nations of the Pacific, in Polynesia, Micronesia, and Melanesia, many cultures are resurgent with pride and enthusiasm. Old languages are being revitalized, the arts are flourishing, and politics engaged in new ways.
Meanwhile, like some kind of waterborne bumblebee, the Hokule‘a continues to visit the islands and atolls of the Pacific carrying scholars, school children, inter-island messages, and great hope. It is a pollinator leaving behind in its wake a future that holds more than it used to.
A powerful vision doesn’t just transcend. It ignites.
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