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From the blog Mediation Marketing Tips

Imagine this scenario…

A prospective client arrives at your website (either through a referral, internet search, on-line ad etc.). They look to see your bio, what you have to say in any articles or your blog, and any other pertinent information about you.

Now, if this person came to you from a positive word of mouth referral, chances are they will need little “proof” that you are good.

If not, they will be asking themselves, is this person any good? Can I trust that they will do a good job? Are they qualified? Experienced? And, how do I know?

Enter testimonials.

Testimonials provide social proof. What you say about yourself is largely unpersuasive. What others say about you is golden.

If you want to take it to an even higher level post a picture of the client (with their permission) or have a video excerpt of the testimonial. Talk about powerful marketing.

People want proof. Reaching out to an unknown professional is risky. It is particularly risky when the professional is sought to deal with a high stakes litigation case or high conflict situation. Clients do not want to trust just anyone with such a sensitive service.

The best way I have found to get testimonials (besides, of course, the prerequisites of doing an outstanding job, exceeding expectations and working on continuous improvement) is to offer a short one page feedback form at the conclusion of the mediation.

The best time to ask for testimonials is when you have just done an outstanding job.
With the feedback form you can get important feedback on your work while also getting testimonials for your website.

Be sure to get the consent of the respondent to use their name and/or statement. Be sensitive to confidentiality issues. Most lawyers will appreciate the publicity but private parties may not. Make the form clear re: what identifying information you include.

I have found that if you don’t provide the form right away it is difficult (and time consuming) to get the testimonial later. No matter how glowing their praise was following the mediation, people get busy and are less likely to follow through on your request down the road.

Why should I hire you? Tell me what other people who have had a good experience with you have to say.

Never Give up!
Your partner in the process,

p.s. if the testimonial doesn’t glow, leave it out.


Kristina Haymes

Kristina R. Haymes is a mediator of litigated and non-litigated cases.  She has successfully assisted parties in resolving employment, real estate, commercial and family business & estate disputes. MORE >

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