Larry Gaughan was the Professional Director of Family Mediation of Greater Washington beginning in 1980. He was admitted to the Bar in Montana in 1957 and in Virginia in 1967. Larry was a full-time professor at three law schools, Virginia, Washington & Lee, and George Mason. He did a year in residence at the Georgetown Family Center in 1979-80, during the tenure of Murray Bowen, MD as director. As an attorney he had an AV® Preeminent™ rating and Top Rated Lawyer™ in the DC/Baltimore Area from Martindale-Hubbell. He was an Advanced Practitioner member of the Academy of Professional Family Mediators and a member of the national Professional Mediation Board of Standards. Larry is the founder of a public interest website on the divorce process, namely http://www.CreativeDivorce.net. He received the Distinguished Mediator of the Year Award for 2017 from the Virginia Mediation Network.
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Mediation Field Mourns the Loss of Family Mediation Pioneer Lawrence D. Gaughan
It is with deep sadness that we learned this week about the passing of Lawrence D. Gaughan, a pioneer professional family mediator.
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In negotiating a divorce agreement, it’s important to understand how the spouses negotiated with each other during their marriage.
Marriage, Dystopian Society--A Story about conflict prevention
This article envisions what it would take, a century in the future, to create a society without any marital strife.
Beyond “Divorce American Style": The Search for a More Responsive Process
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Mediating Divorce Agreements: The Problems and the Potential
It was really exciting to be part of the divorce mediation movement when it became national around 1980. Almost everyone seemed to be aware of the problems with the adversarial system of divorce, and mediation held the promise of a process that was more personal and far less expensive and time consuming. Mediation training was mainly focused on divorce agreements, and those training courses rapidly became a major source of income for the trainers.
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Marriage 101 for Family Mediators
Those of us who have been in the trenches of family law practice for decades have lots of experience with bad marriages. We each probably know more gruesome details about marriage breakups than we care to remember. But most of us also know the details to what makes a marriage great.
Demystifying American Divorce Law
The misconception that there may be a fixed "legal" solution for many mediated divorce cases has created unnecessary difficulties in communication between mediators of different professions. A proper understanding of how the formal system of divorce law works (and often doesn't work) may help to bridge these gaps. This article is intended to enable mediators who are not attorneys to be more comfortable with some useful concepts and guidelines inside the legal box. It is also intended to enable mediators who are lawyers to expand the scope of their skills and knowledge into the important areas of divorce settlements outside of the legal box.