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Family & Divorce Mediation Articles


Ronald S. Kraybill

What Not to Say After Violence

(10/27/17)Ronald S. Kraybill

An Important Choice: What to Do and Say After Violence?

Denisha Shah

Mediation Creates and Spreads Infinite Love

(10/27/17)Denisha Shah

The article is about general foundations and principles of mediation in all aspects (e.g. family, LGBT, divorce, commercial, global, workplace, pet mediation, child custody) as it explores the depth and truth of multi-dimensions in relationships and love.

Are You Really Ready for Divorce? The 8 Questions You Need to Ask

(10/24/17)Bruce Derman, Wendy Gregson

This article outlines what couples need to do in order to face the numerous dilemmas that are inherent in divorce. If people have not resolved their dilemmas before the divorce, they go through the process trying to manage their fear in different ways by hiding their doubt, responsibility; vulnerability, or dependency.

Jacqueline Burnett-Brown

Family Counseling to Resolve Conflict?

(10/23/17)Jacqueline Burnett-Brown

If you are a member of a family, whether it is as father, mother, child, sibling or an extended member, there will be conflict.

Nina Meierding

Interview with Nina Meierding

(10/17/17)Nina Meierding

This is the complete interview by Robert Benjamin with Nina Meierding filmed as part of Mediate.com's 'Views from the Eye of the Storm' Video Series.

Cinnie Noble

Changing Your Direction in Conflict

(10/13/17)Cinnie Noble

What insight do you have into your conflict?

Larry Gaughan

What ADR Professionals Can Learn from Litigating Divorce Lawyers

(10/13/17)Larry Gaughan

Well over 90% of all divorce cases are resolved by agreements, but there are two divergent methods for negotiating those agreements.

Peter T. Coleman

How Conflict Is Like Sex

(10/06/17)Peter T. Coleman

Another big idea on peace and justice from the career of Morton Deutsch.

Joe Markowitz

From Litigation to Conflict Resolution

(10/06/17)Joe Markowitz

“From litigation to conflict resolution” describes what happens with most contested legal disputes; they tend to follow a trajectory from an adversarial to a more cooperative process.

Meredith Richardson

When in Conflict, Ask Yourself, “What are the unmet needs?”

(10/06/17)Meredith Richardson

When you are in conflict, what are your unmet needs? What are the unmet needs of the person with whom you are in conflict?

Zena Zumeta

Interview with Zena Zumeta

(9/30/17)Zena Zumeta

This is the complete interview by Robert Benjamin with Zena Zumeta, long time mediator, trainer and former President of the Academy of Family Mediators, filmed as part of Mediate.com's 'Views from the Eye of the Storm' Video Series.'

Marty Klein

All for One … One for All: Collaborative Process Or Collaborative Lifestyle

(9/29/17)Marty Klein

In 2007, after twenty-three, war-torn years of litigation, I just knew that there had to be a better way of resolving conflict in people’s lives. Thus began my quest – my journey into the world of alternate dispute resolution.

Sandeep Bhalothia

Mediation in Domestic Violence Case: Whether to Use or Not to Use? – An Indian Perspective

(9/22/17)Sandeep Bhalothia

In this article, I aim to identify two opposite interests associated with the settlement of domestic violence cases, and look at the Indian law to see how those two interests are equitably balanced, therefore, providing a recommended way forward, not necessarily a perfect one, to handle cases related to domestic violence.

Tammy Lenski

Can Your Beliefs About Someone Alter Their Behavior?

(9/14/17)Tammy Lenski

If you believe someone is aggressive, could they behave more aggressively with you than with others?

Debbie Smith

10 Things to Consider Before Signing a Prenuptial Agreement

(9/14/17)Debbie Smith

So you need to determine things to consider before signing a prenuptial agreement and don’t know where to start?

Educating the Next Generation in Conflict Resolution: A Review of "Trouble at the Watering Hole: The Adventures of Emo and Chickie" - Book Review

(9/08/17)Gregg Relyea, Joshua N. Weiss

This article includes reviews by Dan Shapiro, Director, Harvard Law School, International Negotiation Program, and other notables, including Bill Ury and the Dalai Lama, of the children's book Educating the Next Generation in Conflict Resolution: A Review of "Trouble at the Watering Hole: The Adventures of Emo and Chickie" by Gregg Relyea and Joshua Weiss.

Larry Gaughan

Using ADR Ideas to Negotiate Divorce Agreements

(9/01/17)Larry Gaughan

In negotiating a divorce agreement, it’s important to understand how the spouses negotiated with each other during their marriage.

Sean Garrity

Mediate.com Helps Divorcing Couples Resolve and Learn From Conflicts

(8/14/17)Sean Garrity

Founded more than 20 years ago as a vehicle to connect professional mediators with individuals who need dispute resolution services, Mediate.com today presents more than 15,000 articles and top-tier resources for its 5 million annual visitors.

Dan Simon

Why Don’t Transformative Mediations Get Violent?

(8/11/17)Dan Simon

“It’s important to set ground rules at the start of a mediation, and then you can remind the parties of those rules if they get off track later,” said a trainee in one of my mediation courses.

John Sturrock

Knowing our Neighbours – a Mediator’s Reflection

(8/08/17)John Sturrock

I am travelling back from a couple of days in and around Dublin, discussing an initiative on respectful political dialogue with politicians, academics and conflict resolution professionals.

Joy Rosenthal

Prenup? That’s Good News!

(8/08/17)Joy Rosenthal

Your wedding day is only a few months off and your fiancé nervously mentions that he would like a prenuptial agreement.

Shannon Rios Paulsen

Children, Divorce, and Dating

(8/01/17)Shannon Rios Paulsen

In my role as a counselor for children of divorce, my focus is the children. The question about dating arises in every session of “Co-parenting Through Your Divorce” that I facilitate. This article addresses this question for parents of divorce and for those who are dating others who are divorced with children.

John Fiske

Bargaining in the Light of the Law: The Case of Divorce

(7/28/17)John Fiske

By now, in 2017, divorce law has become clear and often even predictable.

Michael Scott

Co-Parenting

(7/19/17)Michael Scott

There are many threatening and frightening things that happen to individuals whose relationship ends up in separation or divorce. A successful divorce is one in which the parents divorce each other but do not require the child to divorce one of the parents.

Kenneth Cloke

Interview with Ken Cloke

(7/12/17)Kenneth Cloke

This is the complete interview by Robert Benjamin with Ken Cloke, author and Founder of Mediators Beyond Borders, filmed as part of Mediate.com's 'Views from the Eye of the Storm' Video Series.

Vicki Shemin

Divorce Lawyers: 5 Little Known Things You Need To Know

(7/06/17)Vicki Shemin

There is an inescapable fact: the relationship between a divorce attorney and a client is, at best, a business relationship.

Marion Wasserman

Massachusetts Divorce: How Long Does it Take?

(7/06/17)Marion Wasserman

Let us imagine a couple in agreement on pursuing the quickest possible Massachusetts divorce.

Larry Gaughan

Marriage, Dystopian Society--A Story about conflict prevention

(6/16/17)Larry Gaughan

This article envisions what it would take, a century in the future, to create a society without any marital strife.

Jacqueline Burnett-Brown

It Takes A Solomon: Tearing Children Apart in Divorce

(6/16/17)Jacqueline Burnett-Brown

When a couple with children decide that it is time to divorce it is important for them to remember they are not divorcing their children, nor are they divorcing their shared role as parent.

Laurie Israel

How to Mediate a Prenuptial Agreement

(6/14/17)Laurie Israel

Marriages can be damaged by a destructive prenup or by a harsh prenup negotiation process.

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