The Four Agreements is based on ancient Toltec wisdom which is said to embody the essential unity of truth and described as a way of life. I believe that if we adopt these Four Agreements they will create enough personal power to change the way we mediate and resolve conflict, leading to better and more satisfying settlements.

Bill and Melinda Gates recently announced that they are divorcing after 27 years. Besides having to address their billions of dollars and their enormously influential foundation, this has brought attention to issues of a mature (or “gray”) divorce.

It’s generally true in conflict that “it takes two to tango.” In the world of divorce, the fundamental problem with being labelled “high conflict” is how rarely both parties are dancing together.

An interview with Kim Kovach and Eric Galton about mediation, being married to a mediator, and the future of mediation. Recorded and shared as part of the Mediation 20/20 Conference.

Collaborative law is the best way for families to navigate tough transitions and here is why.

What can mediators learn from the online experience of other collaborative dispute resolution professionals? How do we best integrate online mediation with conflict & life coaching, collaborative practice and limited scope representation?

This article summarizes the Young Minds, Global Voices Conference. This conference was sponsored by Mediate.com in an effort to hear from newer mediators. These 6 sessions comprised up and coming thought leaders from around the globe, forming a brain trust for how to create peace in ourselves, our community and our world.  

An interview with Marilyn McKnight and Stephen Erickson about the origins of family mediation, their different conflict styles, and the future of conflict resolution. Recorded and shared as part of the Mediation 2020 Conference.

An interview with Joan Goldsmith and Ken Cloke about mediation, being married to a mediator, and the future of mediation. Recorded and shared as part of the Mediation 20/20 Conference.

No matter how a couple may approach questions involving parenting after divorce, the answers are never easily derived.

Naturally, as a Divorce Financial Advisor, I began thinking how these types of crypto assets were going to impact divorce settlements.

The second Forum of the Online Mediation Training Task Force centered on new and emerging issues of online mediation and the training of mediators online.

As difficult as a divorce can be for a married couple, it can be just as upsetting and confusing for the children of the relationship.

There are a lot of reasons why couples decide to get divorced. Financial troubles, lack of communication, continual arguing, unrealistic expectations, lack of intimacy, infidelity, and abuse are among the more common reasons why couples split up.

Separation is challenging; going through a separation during a pandemic can be more challenging.

To understand mediation, you must examine the reason behind having a mediator.

As many of you may know, mediation is not used as often as it should be to resolve international patent litigation. But is this also the case within the industry?

Mediate.com is ranked the top mediation website by Alexa in its April 14, 2021 global website rankings. In business since 1996, Mediate.com has over 25,000 searchable mediation articles, blog posts, news items and videos and hosts the most utilized mediator directory in the world.

2020 has been a year of too many upsets, too many uncertainties, and too many confusions.

A guide on best practices related to the collection and use mobile evidence and the software options available best suited to assist.

Some of us call it the muddy time. It’s the time in between the decision to divorce and when the actual divorce is made final.

International commercial mediation - what a settlement agreement can do.

When I got married, I found that one of the strangest transitions wasn’t to being newlyweds or calling him my husband but was more related to my new in-laws. I think that often in-laws, especially mothers-in-law, have gotten a bad rap in popular culture.

If you are going through a divorce, one of the most significant concerns you may have is the effect it has on your children. 

Getting divorced can take just as big of a toll on the kids as it does the adults involved. Fortunately, divorcing parents can help to mitigate the negative impacts of divorce on the entire family in a few key ways, namely with mediation. Learn how mediation can work for your family here.

When a friend told me how he overcame a bully, my curiosity peaked, and I asked him to show me how he defused a situation like that.

It is likely that a large majority of clergy who serve congregations are hired, re-hired or terminated by the vote of the individual congregation.

It is a choice to be courageous in family conflict, and an important one.

Recently I had a client ask me, “How do we say to our friends we’re getting a divorce?”

My last mediation of 2020 was for a prenuptial agreement, and to me it was kind of a sign of hope for the year to come.