The Psychology of Conflict and the Art of Compassion
This article is designed to shift how we manage people in emotionally intense situations.
What Is Divorce Mediation and Why Might it Be Good for You?
Divorce and custody mediation creates a safe, cooperative setting for participants to discuss emotional and substantive issues and engage in collaborative problem-solving. Participants open lines of communication, gain clarity and a better understanding of their own and each other's interests.
The Downside of DIY Divorce
With the increasing popularity of Pinterest, the concept of “do-it-yourself” or “DIY” projects have become enticing for many.
Is There LIfe After Divorce At 45? Your Mindset Tells It All
You’re 45, and finally on the other side of your divorce.
5 Key Questions to Ask About Family Mediation
For separating couples looking for an alternative to court proceedings, mediation can be hugely helpful in finding resolutions to the most contentious issues.
What’s Fair Is Fair… Or Is It?
“I only want what is equitable. That is my operating principle.”
5 Tips for Coping With Divorce And Child Custody With a High-Conflict Ex
‘Child Custody’ is becoming an outdated concept.
Wanted: Diverse Divorce Practitioners. Why Diversity is Good for All of Us
Couples from all backgrounds can benefit from help from diverse family law practitioners.
Use of Mediation During Divorce Proceedings in India
In this blog post, Saakshi Jain, student, Amity University, Lucknow Campus writes about Mediation, a must and compulsory process in India. This post also covers the need, advantages, and disadvantages of mediation and its impact on Indian divorces.
New Interview with Don Saposnek - The Future of Mediation and Negotiation in Our Culture, Politics and Society
This is a new interview with Don Saposnek, long-time leader in the field of divorce mediation and best supporting the interests of children in divorce, by Robert Benjamin as part of Mediate's new "The Future of Mediation and Negotiation in Our Culture, Politics and Society" video series.
Mediation in Child Protection Cases
This article illustrates the use of mediation in child protection (juvenile dependency) cases, a practice that has increased substantially in America’s juvenile courts over the past five years.
An Exploratory Study Based on USA Marriage Mediators’ Views
This is a study on models of helping couples stay married. Please find enclosed a letter of invitation to the study.
Seven Ideas for a Better Divorce
Innovate with ideas, try to think outside the box when it comes to solutions.
Creating Effective Parenting Plans
This article discusses working with your children’s developmental needs when creating a parenting plan.
Why Divorce Mediation Makes Sense
During my more than 30 years of practicing law, I have found that the great majority of divorcing couples are unaware of their options.
Getting Hitched? 6 Tips for Pre-Marriage Relationships
You’re getting married soon and you’re excited about it. But wait!
Does Your Pet Need a Divorce Lawyer?
Just like with child custody, determining who will take care of the pets after a divorce can be a difficult topic.
5 Prudent Ways to Talk to Kids About Your Divorce
When children are involved in a divorce, you have to deal with not just your own emotions, but also theirs. Here are some tips for these conversations.
NEW: Mediate.com - APFM Video Series
Mediate.com and the Academy of Professional Family Mediators (APFM) have worked together to produce 4 new online video courses Check out the trailers for all 4 of these new courses and then order at www.mediate.com/University. Note the special holiday pricing of only $199 for all 4 courses this month only!
Even More Conflict Resolution Tips
Following up on two previous articles, this article taps into 24 years of mediation experience and provides divorcing couples with tips that will help them navigate their divorce and mediation process in sane and healthy manner and will help them stay in control of the process.
Zealous Advocacy Can Kill
His divorce was going really badly: aggressive lawyers on both sides, court battles and blame-ridden affidavits!
Don’t Dread Divorces this December
Thanks to the 2017 federal Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017, (“TCAJA”), divorce lawyers and mediators know that December will be a busy time and some of us may be working right up to the close of the courthouse on Monday, December 31st.
What is Child-Inclusive Mediation?
If you are a parent going through separation or divorce it is highly likely you are worried about the effect it will have on your children.
10 Do’s and Don’ts of Successful Co-Parenting After Divorce
Are you struggling with Co-Parenting after divorce? If you are, it is no surprise.
APFM: The Dream, Progress to Date, and New Goals
In March 2012, eleven amazing people announced the creation of the Academy of Professional Family Mediators. They had big dreams and grand expectations. Let’s look at how far we have come and where we may go.