Lois Gold

Lois Gold Lois Gold, M.S.W. is a mediator and therapist in Portland Or. She is past President of the Academy of Family Mediators and has been active in the development of mediation since the 1970's. Her practice currently focuses on divorce, family, and workplace mediation, consultation and training in conflict resolution, and therapy to individuals, couples, and families.


Contact Lois Gold

Website: www.loisgold.com

Articles and Video:

From Lois Gold (09/06/07)
There would be no mediate.com without the visionary thinking, foresight, know-how, and ethics of Jim Melamed. He has created and grown an invaluable and highly accessible resource for the the mediator community and the public at large. Thank you Jim.

Divorce Mediation: Participant's Exercises (07/22/02)
The following exercises have been excerpted from the book BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE: A GUIDE TO CIVILIZED DIVORCE by Lois Gold, M.S.W. These exercises can be used in conjunction with mediation or the parties can work with them on their own.

Getting Ready To Negotiate (01/18/01)
This is the first in a series of articles by Lois Gold, author of Between Love And Hate: A Guide To Civilized Divorce(Penguin USA 1996). In this article, an excerpt from Chapter 12, Lois focuses on preparing yourself to be at your best as a negotiator. Although it is written for separating or divorcing couples, the principles are applicable to any disputants who have had or will continue to have a relationship.

Accessing Your Resources As A Negotiator (01/18/01)
This is the second in a series of articles by Lois Gold, author of Between Love And Hate: A Guide To Civilized Divorce(Penguin USA 1996). In this article, an excerpt from Chapter 12, Lois focuses on recognizing different negotiating styles and accessing your resources as a negotiator. Although it is written for separating or divorcing couples, the principles are applicable to any disputants who have had or will continue to have a relationship.

Tips For Naive Negotiators: How to improve your chances of getting what you want (01/18/01)
This is the third in a series of articles by Lois Gold, author of Between Love And Hate: A Guide To Civilized Divorce(Penguin USA 1996). In this article, an excerpt from Chapter 12, Lois provides negotiation tips. Although it is written for separating or divorcing couples, the principles are applicable to any disputants who have had or will continue to have a relationship.