Like it or Not, the United States and Iran are Partners: Seven Principles for Moving Forward Negotiations


by Bill Lincoln, Robert Benjamin, Polly Davis and Seth Kane


February 2008

Bill Lincoln There is a point to be made and not to be forgotten: Conflict adversaries such as the United States and Iran are indeed the partners which each other needs and seeks if they are to prevent, manage and resolve dysfunctional conflict. While the nuclear issue is seemingly the focal point of the conflict, in reality it is the overall US-Iranian relationship that must be addressed if stability and real security is to be achieved in the region.

Within the certainty and fair provisions of international law, Iran – as do all nations – has the right to develop nuclear capabilities solely for peaceful purposes yet subject to the standards of the International Atomic Energy Agency and the Non-Proliferation Treaty. Similarly, the United States – as do all nations – has the right to be actively concerned about its own security and those of its allies. The principles of self-sufficiency of one nation and the security of another are apparent competing principles.

The International Coalition of Concerned Mediators (ICCM), a project of The Conflict Resolution, Research and Resource Institute (CRI) , respectfully submits that to date an intelligent, muscular, and realistic negotiation effort has not been undertaken by the United States and Iran to resolve their differences.

We are an organization of professional conflict management professionals whose daily work concerns the negotiated settlement of complex, difficult, and often intractable issues and disputes that many think insoluble – from matters of business, to geo-political and major public policy matters. Our careers have been dedicated to the study and development of practical expertise in preventing, managing and resolving conflicts. Our job as impartial players is to actively work to bring adversaries together, and to keep them engaged so that dysfunctional conflict can be addressed more effectively as well as equitably and efficiently.

We are deeply concerned that such professional attitudes and attention are not being exhibited in this situation. We strongly believe that action must be taken to effectively prevent what appears to be the very real prospect of war. Too many times in history the leaders of nations have proceeded to war without first sufficiently pursuing honest and productive negotiations free of threats and ultimatums.

Several nations within the European Union as well as Russia are proactive in attempting to ward off military confrontation. Similarly, the International Atomic Energy Agency (IAEA) is assertively fulfilling its mandate to objectively monitor and ensure Iranian compliance with the Non-Proliferation Treaty. Nonetheless, the broader international community is well aware that resolving the nuclear issue is unlikely if the animosity between the USA and Iran is not directly and effectively addressed -- and soon.

We fully acknowledge that negotiations involving the USA and Iran will not be easy. However, as seasoned and realistic conflict management professionals we also know that necessary channels for direct negotiations must be opened and engaged immediately.

Both Iran and the United States have rich cultures and histories, both have contributed to betterment of the world, and both are worthy of respect. However, both countries have also engaged in demonizing the other in ways that are all-too-typical in conflict escalation.

We are not interested in picking sides, casting blame or commenting on the substantive issues of contention. Based on our collective professional experience as impartial practitioners we would like to offer our insights on how the process of talks can be improved and advanced so that violent conflict can be avoided.

AS PROFESSIONAL CONFLICT MANAGERS WE PROPOSE THE FOLLOWING STEPS BE UNDERTAKEN IMMEDIATELY:

First, a key myth about negotiations must be dispelled, namely, that one can never negotiate with any other entity that it doesn’t trust.

To dispel such a hypothesis we only have to ask how much did North Korea and the United States trust each other in the cease-fire talks in 1952-1953? At first, absolutely zero. And how much trust existed between Israel and Egypt in the September 1978 Camp David Talks to end dysfunctional conflict between the two nations? Again, none. All through the cold war how much did the United States and the Soviet Union trust each other in disarmament talks? Not at all. And, of course, the current ongoing North Korea six party talks that have produced tangible benefits proceed with a distinct lack of trust. The key is can the disputing parties develop a process that they trust, a process that monitors the agreement and contains an enforceable future dispute resolution clause to address infractions, alleged breaches and unanticipated variables.

Countless historical examples demonstrate that negotiations have a chance for success despite past failures. Numerous and tireless efforts for peace were required in the case of Northern Ireland to finally achieve the levels of stability and cooperation that we witness today. Indeed, every successful peace settlement or rapprochement has succeeded in the face of skeptics arguing that talks were useless by citing past failures as evidence .

Second, negotiations cannot begin with “first, fair and final offers” particularly when such stances represent the insisted upon final results of a process that has yet to begin. Demands to accept certain specific substantive proposals as a pre-condition for talks are typically ‘non-starters’, and too easily can close down the possibility of negotiation before they even begin. Productive negotiations are comprised of bargaining ranges, not ultimatums.

Third, both the United States and Iran must stop focusing upon proposals that are non-inclusive of the other nation’s legitimate principles, i.e., “interests.” In so doing, the United States and Iran have to give more attention to their own as well as each other’s principles, and how such can be satisfied in equitable, practical and durable ways.

Both nations and all related entities must remember that conflict is rooted in a sense of competing principles such as a nation’s subjectively defined and valued notions of its sovereignty, its independence, its national culture and character, its security, its international political credibility and stability, its economic health, its functional amicability with other nations and so forth. It is such principles that “are at stake”, i.e., thus emphasizing the disputants as “legitimate stakeholders” in contrast to being merely arrogant or intransigent opponents. In doing so, one must be aware that the different histories, cultures, emotions, values and beliefs held by conflicting parties often play havoc with others’ definitions of rationality.

It follows then that conflict resolution occurs when disputing parties no longer sense that their respective principles are in dysfunctional competition with one another. Therefore both Iran and the United States must identify, discuss and clearly understand their own as well as the other’s principles, and to be ever mindful of them throughout negotiations. In fact, every proposal put forth must contain three components: (i) articulation of one’s own principles, (ii) verifiable case merits, and (iii) rational as to why the other side would even be seriously interested in considering the proposal, i.e., what principles/interests of theirs would be satisfied.

Fourth, procedural agreements are a vital stepping-stone to achieving substantive agreements.

Too often parties, “in the interest of time”, discount the importance of developing procedural agreements as mere preliminaries that can be rushed or even ignored. Procedural agreements are not “preliminaries”, but are prerequisites: A process of negotiations does not exist without them. Contesting parties negotiate procedural agreements that become the framework through which the causes will be discussed, issue items will be addressed and proposals will be negotiated. Below are some of the key functions, purposes and benefits of developing procedural agreements:

- Experience indicates that conflicting parties tend to negotiate procedural matters in the same way they intend to negotiate substantive matters, thus this initial step serves as a kind of dress rehearsal as to what to expect and what to do to enhance civility and productivity.

- By mutually determining who the primary stakeholders will be in the process an arena is formed that helps manage the conflict.

- By agreeing upon both internal and external behaviors as well as communication guidelines that will be permitted during the negotiations a framework for productive exchanges and conflict management is established.

- Procedural agreements can monitor substantive negotiations. After all, if a party cannot keep little agreements then what is the likelihood that they can keep big agreements – if a party cannot keep procedural agreements what is the likelihood that they can or will maintain substantive agreements?

- The conflicting parties become equal architects of the process in which they will collectively engage, thus developing senses of procedural equity and procedural ownership that contribute much to “procedural satisfaction” which is a central component for developing and maintaining durable agreements.

- While the contesting sides may have doubted that they could ever agree on anything, the process of procedural development has them working together, agreeing together, and getting into a “yes” habit.

- Procedural agreements can be used to specify various timelines thus hindering either side from using the pretext of negotiations as a stalling tactic.

Fifth, any productive negotiations involving the United States and Iran cannot constitute a “one issue agenda.” It must be acknowledged that both nations have several issues to be addressed with related proposals to be negotiated. Moreover, having multiple issues on the agenda increases the likelihood that quid pro quos will be identified and utilized successfully towards building a final agreement.

Not one, but both the United States and Iran are rightfully concerned for their need to strive for their own energy self sufficiency, free from dependency on other nations’ resources and commercial interests. Not one, but both nations are concerned about secure protection from nuclear threats within the region and to themselves. Not one, but both nations are concerned with what they deem and profess are their rights and needs to be influential players within the region.

The United States and Iran as well as the United Nations, and the European Union must accept that other items are linked to the issue of nuclear enhancement including matters pertaining to Israel, Iraq, Lebanon and Afghanistan. Clearly the menu is vast and complicated yet it can be fractionated in ways that permit all issues to be addressed systematically and thoroughly. Agenda development is the right and responsibility of both primary parties, not just one.

Sixth, serious conflicts seldom can be solved immediately or by force. The integration of patience and persistence draw adversaries into the process of productive negotiations.

Many times it is more fruitful to commence substantive negotiations by addressing items that are less pressing than main menu items in order to develop an incremental pattern of progress that can carry over to address the more difficult and complex matters. While at times tedious and exhausting, this is where, when and how the real muscles of negotiation can be exercised. Indeed, the shortest distance between the points of origin of any conflict and its possible settlement outcomes is rarely a straight line.

Perhaps within and between some Western cultures it is expected that problems or conflicts should be solved directly and immediately, and that professional diplomacy is little more than endless and ineffectual talk that leads nowhere. However, the study of history and conflicts suggests otherwise. For example, the US-Cuba missile crisis of 1962 was ultimately resolved diplomatically whereby the US removed its missiles from Turkey in exchange for Russia first removing its missiles from Cuba.

Seventh, a moral issue is at stake: If negotiations are perceived to be merely perfunctory and as a pretext to military action then the future credibility of international negotiations by any nation for any purpose will be greatly diminished. If the United States or Iran takes military actions without having pursued a strenuous and good faith effort to negotiate then that war will be perceived as having been avoidable, and the lives lost and blood spilled a horrible and unnecessary waste. No one in good conscience, certainly and especially the leaders of the United States or Iran, should tolerate that prospect.

In conclusion, the world expects both nations to act toward one another in mature, responsible and productive ways in order that the United States, the region, and the world at large will benefit by their fair, functional and durable agreements.

The International Coalition of Concerned Mediators is committed to bringing to bear on this and other conflicts the best practices of professional negotiators and mediators. While not every dispute can be settled, many can be. And, everyone is well aware that to increase the likelihood of a settlement a realistic, persistent and good faith effort is required. To date that effort has not been either sincerely or effectively pursued.



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 Albie ,   Thomaston ME    03/05/08 
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HELLO, MEDIATE.COM BUDDIES. Albie Davis checking in to say hello from Maine, where we are iced in the house. A good time to reflect upon the ICCM "Seven Principles" statement. I've read it now about five times and still feel lost. Whom is the audience for this statement? Is it to be seen as the thoughts of the four authors or of ICCM members? Is it a first draft awaiting input from others? OR, Is it a "done deal." I'm going to assume it's a first draft upon which those who are interested can put their two cents. As Mary Parker Follett said in the mid-1920s, "All polishing is done by friction." This draft contains gems of wisdom here and there, but is in need of polishing. Here are some of my preliminary thoughts. AUDIENCE. Let's assume it is not people who perceive themselves at professional mediators, since it seems to be coming from such people to others. Who are the others? I'd like to hear people's thoughts on whom should receive such a statement. VOICE. Who is speaking? I could live without the emphasis on “professional mediators,” which in excess, discounts the importance of finding people whom the involved parties trust to play a role in jump-starting communication. And, ignores the historical and cultural use of “nonprofessional AND competent” people to play the mediation-type role. INTENT. Once we identify “audience(s),” what do we want them to feel, think and do? TONE. I'm not too crazy about the "Like it or not" tone of the title which evokes "You're either with us or against us" mentality. As I move in to the statement, it seems to vacillate between approach and avoidance of its audience, whomever they are. And between “in-group” and “out-group;” and, in the end, “you need us, the professionals.” CONTENT. If one decides that seven principles is the way to go, are these the seven core principles? Intuitively, they don’t feel right to me, but I’m going to give it more thought. Saul Alinsky (Rules for Radicals) says, “The price of an attack is a constructive alternative.” I’m not ready for that, but, as an example will just reflect upon the first principle. First, a key myth about negotiations must be dispelled, namely, that one can never negotiate with any other entity that it doesn’t trust. Is it an “inviting” first principle to dispel a myth? And a negative myth at that? Perhaps a first principle on this topic might be, “When faced with a conflict where the parties involved reject the notion of even talking with one another, special attention must be given to finding people, principles and incentives for building trust.” PROCESS. If the Seven Principles statement comes from ICCM members, what process, if any, would be a community-building process for those who have signed the founding ICCM statement. Is the Seven Principles piece an emergency statement where members must trust their leaders to come up with something quickly and get it out to the world, or is it something else? For those of you who are “Sleeping in Seattle,” I eagerly await your awakening.” Warm regards, Albie Davis
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 Mark Kane,   Seattle WA    03/01/08 
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I think that the article presupposes that there are two "interested parties" involved here. In fact, there are at least four. Americans and Iranians who want the level of American-Iranian tensions eased, and Americans and Iranians who need each other as enemies so each can blame the other for it's failures and problems at home. The current administrations of both the US and Iran seem to need each other as enemies more than they need each other as partners in negotiation. Until this dysfunctional impasse is solved internally in each country there is scant hope for meaningful negotiations. I hope the situation improves with the next US administration, and I read that the Iranians are not too happy with their own President.
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 William ,   Tacoma WA  criwfl@qwestoffice.net      02/29/08 
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Peter, thanks, for your comments. For the reader let us be certain that in your remarks to me you were addressing the New York Times op-ed "Attack Iran, With Words" By Reuel Marc Gerecht which I commented on through the ICCM listserve -- NOT the ICCM "Like it or Not, the United States and Iran are Partners: Seven Principles for Moving Forward Negotiations" as the Comment URL line erroneously indicated.

In accord with the principles of ICCM I wish to shy away as much as possible from the topic of "Negotiating with Iran" as your Comment Subject line reads, and instead through a generic approach focus upon your questions and remarks. Although "good faith" negotiations is much harder to define than is "bad faith bargaining" we are well aware that even in our own country so-called operative descriptions have been functioning for years via numerous administrative and regulatory agencies as well as judicial bodies. And certainly the European Union has made little distinction between "good faith negotiations" and "good faith efforts" regarding its interactions with with Microsoft including negotiated agreements as well as compliance to judicial or regulator decisions expected to be respected in accord with the "rule of law". Let the above assertions stand so we can avoid becoming enveloped in various appeal processes or acts of civil disobedience or the exercise of situational ethics. Be it noted that "good faith" is not a nebulous abstract concept despite cultural variances.

Nonetheless, I will respond to your challenging question as to what is "good faith negotiations":

"Good faith" is earnest and sincere in that the opposing disputants desire to work toward mutually acceptable agreements which -- in their specific respective circumstances and point in time -- said disputants would regard the overall substantive results to be fair and equitable even if not fully equal; it involves a recognition that each disputing party is indeed the other partner needed to attain such results; it recognizes that the negotiation process is fragile thus there is nothing "macho" in breaking up the process, yet there are laurels for keeping the table together and the process productive; it focuses upon causes instead of blame; it diligently addresses matters of data, structures, values and relationships instead of acerbating nonproductive behaviors by self and others; it encourages the disputing parties to honestly think how they themselves have contributed to the conflict -- and perhaps still are; it sets forth the functional ethic that neither the escalation of demands nor instances of regressive negotiations will occur; it recognizes the need for procedural satisfaction of all parties from developing logistics, negotiation "rules", and the agenda to the language of the agreement, the monitoring process, and the future dispute resolution clause in order to effectively deal with potential matters of conflict aftermath; it reminds self and others of the negative consequence on all the innocent beings of all side should the conflict be unduly protracted or not resolved through non disruptive or nonviolent means; it makes the diplomatic distinctions between "threats" and "warnings"; it emphasizes principles to be addressed instead of unyielding demands; it will not tolerate "first, fair and final offers" as credible components of any negotiations; preferred positions and proposals; it exercises patient persistence and persistent patience as the opposing disputants still strive to achieve overall substantive results which they will regard as fair and equitable even if not fully equal; it is credible, it is good faith.

Peter, where in the the USA-Iran conflict have you observed the above to have occurred -- by either side?

Now let us address "jawing" which you neither defined nor described. Is it being boisterous? Is it repeating ad infinitum the same demand on a single issue agenda? Is it talking to everyone worldwide except to one's adversary? "No" is the correct answer to all three questions.

"Jawing" consists of candid yet productive discussions nose to nose, eyeball to eyeball directly to the opposing party -- yea, in their presence. Here I have no dispute with Mr. Gerecht. Here he and I both advocate direct high level negotiations between the US and Iran, and I applaud his eagerness that such occur, as he stated, "before its too late". Thus clearly I am not saying negotiations cannot occur between parties who distrust one another. Quite the contrary, for such is one of the biggest myths about negotiations as stated and illustrated by historical examples in the ICCM article "Like it or Not, the United States and Iran are Partners: Seven Principles for Moving Forward Negotiations".

Where I disagree with Mr. Gerecht is an underlying attitude and impatience that while negotiations ought to be attempted to resolve international difference they may also serve to protect nations' political public relations backsides should they decide to engage in military action. I do think there is in his writing a too easily perceived notion that negotiations can serve a nation well even if at times it be a perfunctory exercise thus transforming its failure into a permissible pretext for war.

Bill

William F. Lincoln

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 Bill ,   Tacoma WA  criwfl@qwest.net      02/28/08 
 a bit of jawing with Peter 
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Peter -- on the run, thus this will be brief and crisp.

"Goodfaith" is built on earnestness, on sincereity , and patient persistance /persistant patienc; in real knowledge that both process and substantive equity and ownership has to be sought / assurred; that one shunns "first, fair and final offers" simply 'cause such do not constitute negotiation; that candor has an honorable purpose; that in diplomatic talk there is a noted distinction between "threat" and an alert or warning; that incentives override punishments; that ther is assertive motive not to turn a data, value, structural or even relationship into a broader behavioral conflict -- one for which there may be no recall.

Should negotiations go on forever without progress? No, not at all. Do negotiation tones need to be soft and mellow? Hardly.

But just as negotiators / mediators are to be creative, i.e., "out of the box", why do we not also become more creative and less damaging when thinking of addressing possible failure in the negitiation process?

Good faith can demand creativity, in fact it welcomes it!

Must run.

Bill

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 Peter Adler,   Keystone CO    02/28/08 
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Bill-

Thanks for posting this. It’s a very provocative piece and raises lots of questions, not the least of which are:

Exactly what does “good faith” mean in this particular context of extreme distrust? In the chess game going on between the U.S. neo-cons and the Iranian hard core mullahs, how would each side know good faith if they saw it?

Exactly what is the code of negotiation ethics that you would propose instead of what Gerecht is describing? What is the violation he is flirting with?

Lots of negotiations take place between people who distrust and dislike each other in the extreme. Despite that, people who dislike and distrust each other figure out ways to do business together. Are you saying no negotiations are preferable to what Gerecht is advocating?

Why shouldn’t Americans (or anyone else) enter into negotiations to (a) learn more; (b) make demands; and (c) try to prevent stupid and unnecessary military confrontations?

Bill, I fervently believe, like you and many of our other colleagues, that there are better and smarter ways to resolve these kinds of dilemmas but I actually appreciate the bluntness and transparency of Gerecht’s thinking. I don’t think it flirts with anything. It is “power” talking to “power” which is the lowest equation of negotiation. It would be nice to see that equation raised up a rung or two but, as Churchill said, “Talking jaw to jaw is better than going to war.”

Peter S. Adler, Ph.D.
President & CEO
The Keystone Center
1628 Sts. John Road
Keystone, Colorado 80435
www.keystone.org

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