Same-Sex Couples: When Divorce Isn’t An Option


by Arnold W. Zeman

From Arnold W. Zeman's blog

November 2009

Arnold W.  Zeman

Since 1995, same-sex couples have had full marriage rights in Canada.  Since these rights are not available in many U.S. states, American couples have travelled to Canada to get married.  So far so good.

What happens, though, in the event that marriages of non-Canadian same-sex couples break down?  Divorce may not be an option.  If their home jurisdiction does not recognize same-sex marriage, it will not grant a divorce for such a union.  Returning to Canada for a divorce is impractical because the Divorce Act states that one of the couple must have been “ordinarily resident in the province for at least one year immediately preceding the commencement of the proceeding.” This makes for what B.C. lawyer Barbara Findlay calls “divorce catch-22?:

“That means having more than just a mailing address,” explains [F]indlay. “It means having a personal presence according to case law, and that turns out to mean that for people who contracted a marriage here that don’t live in Canada, they are effectively denied a divorce.”

To make matters more complicated, even if one spouse is willing to reside in Canada for the requisite period of time, they are subject to visa requirements. An American citizen can usually enter Canada and stay for six months without a visa, but after six month must apply for an extension. In most circumstances, visitors to Canada are also not allowed to work.

The Ontario Family Law Blog has an excellent round-up with links on this aspect of gay marriage and divorce.  Read it here.

(H/T: Brian Galbraith)



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Biography




After over 33 years in the public service of Canada, the last 20 of which as an executive, I retired from government in 2006 to pursue my passion to help people resolve their differences non-adversarially.

I have been trained by the best in the field in both the public and private sectors in North America:

  • Canadian Department of Justice advanced training in dispute resolution in the workplace;
  • Carleton University Graduate Certificate in Conflict Resolution;
  • Hofstra University Law School and the Institute for the Study of Conflict Transformation training in transformative mediation
  • Carleton University’s Centre for Conflict Education and Research training in elder care mediation, and
  • Ontario Association for Family Mediation approved training in domestic violence issues in mediation and arbitration
In addition, to Carleton’s Graduate Certificate in Conflict Resolution, I hold an M.A. in sociology from the University of Toronto.

I am fluent in English, French and German.

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