Negotiation tips for work, home and the marketplace


by Tammy Lenski

Conflict Zen Blog by Tammy Lenski

January 2012

Tammy Lenski

Last fall, my 13 graduate negotiation students, few of whom described themselves as good negotiators when class started, mostly shuddered at the prospect of one assignment in particular: Each week, they had to negotiate something. A matter at home. A better price on a purchase at the mall. A contract with a vendor at work. A problem with a colleague.
We kept track of their negotiations outside of class in our online discussion forum, where they could post about the negotiation, celebrate, or ask for insights about what could have been done better. Seven weeks later, when the term ended, these 13 graduate students had successfully completed dozens of home and workplace negotiations, and I estimate they saved well over $10,000 in purchases ranging from new carpet to sporting goods to coffeemakers. Not bad for a group that claimed not to like negotiating!

Next up in my 10-year blogiversary retrospective and prize giveaway are a few of my favorite negotiation tips and stories. These just scratch the surface of the total posts on the subject, of course, so if you want more, check out the Conflict Zen archives.



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For more than two decades Dr. Tammy Lenski has built consensus, created alignment in organizational teams, inspired individuals to find and fine-tune their persuasive voice, and helped couples reduce the conflict in their relationship. A former college dean and vice president, she founded Tammy Lenski LLC, a conflict management consulting firm serving organizations and individuals worldwide, in 1997. Tammy’s award-winning book, Making Mediation Your Day Job, is available in print and digital editions worldwide.

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