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Crisis Negotiation: Why Did It Work? Ø Will you come out? If I give you my word? Will you come out of the truck? Ø I want you to be there for them. Ø Show Betty that you are sincere and want to make things better. Ø We'll work through it together and we'll get Betty involved. It will be better for you and your children. Ø Give me an opportunity to help you. Ø I know a lot about you because I spoke with Betty. (Negotiator related what he knew) Ø I'm here because we (corrected) I don't want to see you get hurt. Ø Will you promise me you will come out? (After he asked to hear her voice on the police radio) Ø I'm not here to tell you what you want to hear. I'm here to help you. Ø I can't help you until I know that I am safe and that you are safe. Ø I want to help you. Ø Give her another oportunity. Ø I'm trying to give you some options. We can work together to try to work this out. Ø Once I know you are safe, we can begin working out everything else. Ø I told you she cares about you. Give her the opportunity to show you. Ø As long as you keep trying, there is always the possibility that things can work out. Ø I want to see you work out things with Betty and things get better. Ø Will you give me the opportunity to help you? Ø I'm only here to help you. I'm concerned about you and want to be sure you are okay. Ø I'll do everything I can to get you and Betty to work things out. Give me the opportunity. Ø It's getting late, kids are tired, you're tired, I'm tired. Ø If you're serious about making your marriage work that is what you need to do. (Come out) Ø Are you willing to work with me on that? If I give you my word? Ø I can't do that right now. They won't let me. Ø The problem is that you can't make things work from inside that truck. Ø You've had problems in the past and you've always managed to work them out. Ø Will you come out for me? Ø Let's start to work this out. Ø I can't hear you, Steven. Ø I want to help you, but I can only do it when I know you are safe. Ø This is what I want you to do, throw out the gun and come out. Ø I know you want to do the right thing and that's the right thing to do. (throw gun out and come out) Ø I give you my word I will let you hear her voice if you come out. Ø You're doing the right thing by wanting to talk to someone and work things out.
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