"I just wanted to write you a note to let you know that Jim and I have finalized our divorce. I also want to thank you for your kindness and consideration in helping us facilitate our matters.
It was, by far, one of the most dificult times I have every been through but your thoughtfulness and spirit of empathy was truly comforting.
I know I speak for Jim, as well, when I say that you made an otherwise traumatic experience much more tolerable for both of us. I pray that no one else dear to me will ever have to expereince divorce, but if that is what occurs, I honesly can say you will be the first and only person I will recommend. God bless."