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The Mediate.com Weekly

May 15, 2012 #430 -  Membership information

In This Issue:

International Mediation Updates • Mediation or Meditation? • An Experiential Exercise to Dramatize the Five Modes • Update on Home Foreclosure Mediation • On Beating Bullies • Recent Developments in International Arbitration • Interview of the Week: Michael Lang  • Keith Seat’s Legal ADR News • Job Center • Mediation Today • Blog Postings • Events Calendar
Mediate.com Announces Open Access Week!
James Melamed
Everyone can access all of Mediate.com for free this week!  Mediate.com now has over 8,000 articles, 4,000 news items and 500 videos! Normally, many sections are reserved for Mediate.com Premium Members and Subscribers. See Mediate.com Sections. For the week of May 11-18, Mediate.com offers OPEN ACCESS to all site visitors and to all Mediate.com content! 

International Mediation Updates 
Keith Seat
Here is another in a series of updates on international mediation development by Keith Seat, Mediate.com Legal ADR News Editor. 

Interview of the Week with Michael Lang 
Michael Lang
This is the complete interview with Michael Lang, former President of the Academy of Family Mediators and founder of the Antioch University conflict resolution program, filmed for the "Mediate.com Eye of the Storm" Video series.
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Mediation or Meditation? 
John Sturrock
Much has been written about the human brain in recent times. Eolene reminded us that the brain has two components, the limbic brain, which developed as homo sapiens dealt with primitive conditions and learned the importance of fight or flight. Later, the neo-cortex, the more rational part of the brain, was formed. But the two were – and are – not united. Our emotions could still override logic, especially under pressure. We are not Mr. Spock. 

An Experiential Exercise to Dramatize the Five Modes
Ralph Kilmann
Several decades ago, I developed an experiential exercise for classroom and workshop settings in order to accelerate people’s understanding and internalization of the five modes (Competing, Avoiding, Collaborating, etc.). This articles walks readers through that example, and also provides insights for instructors as to why different parts of the exercise works
Update on Home Foreclosure Mediation
Keith Seat
Here is another in a series of updates on home mortgage foreclosure mediation by Keith Seat, Mediate.com Legal ADR News Editor.

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On Beating Bullies 
Michael Jacobs
Tackling bullying may involve a counter-intuitive approach. While naming and shaming may leave us feeling morally superior, it might also produce ever more subtle forms of bullying. This article argues that we need to encourage those of us who feel like kicking butts to "come in from the cold."

Recent Developments in International Arbitration
Victoria VanBuren
Following are this month’s recent developments in international arbitration law published by the International Law Office (free registration is required to view the articles).

Academy of Professional Family Mediators (APFM) Announces First Conference
The Academy of Professional Family Mediators’ Founding Conference is being held September 27-30 2012, at the Sea Crest Resort Hotel, Falmouth, MA.  APFM is committed to having an exceptional conference every year dedicated solely to developing family mediation skills and knowledge. This inspirational gathering on beautiful Cape Cod will refresh your spirit, broaden your skills and nurture your connections with colleagues both old and new. The offerings include three Pre-Conference Institutes, twenty-four Sessions, eight Lunch Dialogue groups, with most meals included in the registration fee. Expect nostalgic interludes that will recall our history, and make new friends with whom to build an exciting future for APFM. Walk on Old Silver Beach in the sunset and cast your dreams for our future as Family Mediators. The Conference Brochure and registration information can be viewed here. For more information contact: Ken Neumann - (212) 799-4302 -  kenneumann@teammediation.org or Rod Wells - (914) 213-4665 -  roddywells@gmail.com

Keith Seat’s Legal ADR News

  • Court’s Disposition Final, Despite Tentative Settlement
  • Mediation Given Key Role in Gulf Oil Spill Settlement
  • Maryland Expands Mediation Confidentiality Coverage
  • California Legislation Would Add Legal Malpractice Exception to Strict Mediation Confidentiality Statute
  • Canada Allows Banks to Use Private Mediators in Client Disputes
  • Corporate Mediation Representation Service Launched 
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Mediation Today

  • What is arbitration? You sign away rights. Is that OK?
  • To arbitrate or mediate, that is the question
  • Mediation program for New Orleans police, citizen disagreements is in the works
  • Consumer bureau probes arbitration clauses in financial products
  • Abu Dhabi gets sport arbitration court
  • Arbitrator to Hear Artist's Plea Over Airport Sculpture
  • MLB fires arbitrator from Braun case
  • German solar subsidies bill to go before mediation committee
  • Mediation in Zehm multi-million lawsuit scheduled to begin Monday
  • Report: John Travolta lawsuit headed to secret mediation
  • BC: Couples 'Mediation' Sounds Friendlier but Can Be Dangerous
  • Salisbury University conducts study of use of mediation by judiciary
  • Why mediation can be a good thing
  • McMinnville bumps mediation funding
  • Syria frees Turkish journalists after Iranian mediation
  • Washington Police Union Will Start Mediation Monday
  • Mediation project grows after start in Nanaimo
  • UCSB Extension Mediator Provides Prisoners with Tools for Peace
  • Court rules foreclosure mediation records not public
  • Hong Kong: Opening remarks by SJ at "Mediate First" conference
  • Guinea-Bissau junta, mediators agree on interim president
  • Fremont plans mediation before reservoir contract decision
  • Personnel Today: Why mediation matters
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Mediate’s Featured Blogs

  • Experts
    by Diane Cohen
  • Poor Behavior 11: Having Unrealistic Expectations
    by Vivian Scott
  • How Good Emailing Can Improve Relationships
    by Susanna Jani
  • Judge and Mediator-- Big Brother?
    by Clare Fowler
  • How to Cure Beef in Your Apartment
    by Brad Heckman
  • Mediating the Four Meanings in a Message
    by Nadja Alexander
  • Real Knowledge is to Know the Extent of One's Ignorance
    by Lily Ng
  • AudioBlog: So You Need to Mediate, HELP! Now What? 
    by Pattie Porter
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Mediate’s Jobs

  • Peace Alliance Managing Director – DC
  • Principal Ombuds – TX
  • HR/Ombuds – OH
  • Mediation Adjunct Instructor – IA
  • Ombudsman/Mediator – CA
  • Mediation Development Assistant – Brooklyn NY
  • Peace Institute President – DC
  • Directory of Operations – NY
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Mediate’s Calendar

  • May 18-20 – Asheville NC – Divorce Mediation Institute
  • May 19-20 – Eugene OR – Restorative Justice Mediation
  • May 19 – Chevy Chase MD – Listening, Communication and the Brain
  • May 19 – Los Angeles CA – Legal and Insurance Terms of Art and Settlement Strategies with Lee Jay Berman
  • May 21-25 – Grand Forks ND – Civility in Public Conversation
  • May 22 – Ann Arbor MI – Great Meetings Facilitator Workshop
  • May 29-30 – Grand Forks ND – Developing Emotional Intelligence
  • May 31 – Florence IN – ADR Bootcamp
  • June 1-2 – San Rafael CA – Avoid Impasses with the B E A R Process
  • June 1 – San Francisco – Second Annual San Francisco Peacemaker Awards
  • June 4-6 – Macon GA – Domestic and Family Mediation Training
  • June 6-9 – Chicago IL – AFCC 49th Annual Conference
  • June 6-10 – Orlando – Divorce Mediation Training
  • June 7-16 – Victor NY – Family & Divorce Mediation Training
  • June 10-12 – Chicago – Elder Mediation Training with Zena Zumeta
  • June 12-16 – Los Angeles CA – Mediating Commercial and Litigated Cases with Lee Jay Berman
  • June 13-19 – Salt Lake City – 40-hour Basic Mediation Training
  • June 14-17 – Bend OR – Oregon Foreclosure Avoidance Mediation Training
  • June 16-24 – San Francisco CA – Ron’s Mediation Certificate Training at BASF
  • June 18-22 – Colorado Springs CO – 40-hour Basic Mediation Training
  • June 21-23 – Medford OR - Oregon Foreclosure Avoidance Mediation Training
  • June 21-23 – Malibu CA – 25th Annual Summer Professional Skills Program in Dispute Resolution
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