Find a family mediator http://www.acrnet.org/referrals/ap-family.htm.

Not all family mediation involves divorce. Family mediators work at parent - teen understanding, issues revolving around estates and elder care, efforts to improve marriage relationships, reconciliation of those who have separated, and all other aspects of family life. Non-marital agreements, pre-marital and post-marital agreements are all part of the family mediator's role. For those involved in divorce, child custody, visitation, support, property distribution and parenting agreements are all part of the family mediator's work.