Family Section ACR Family Section
ACR Family Section

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1444 East 8425 South
Sandy, UT 84093
Phone: 801-598-5981


 
Welcome to the ACR Family Section Meeting Hall.   

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Please let us know if you think we should establish more focused meeting rooms and, if so, on what specific topics. Meeting Hall 2 is presently for discussion of the special needs and opportunities of the rural family mediation practitioner. To start a new thread click "add comment." To respond to a thread click "reply to this" within the comment you are responding to. Subscribing to a Meeting Hall will bring you an email when there is a post, allowing you to follow the discussion and comment via email, returning here only to start a new thread. The moderator may be reached at duanerh@fresno.edu.  


Comments:


 Question regarding mediation 
 by richtrailer  05/22/08 
I have an Associates in criminal justice, I am also attending classes for my bachelors degree. My question is this, I love the mediation process and helping people resolve conflicts such as support, visitation, and other issues without a nasty court battle. In most cases I can get people communicating in a civil manner in my life experiences. I think I have what it takes to be a good mediator. I live in Gladwin county, in Michigan, can you tell me what the qualifications are and where to apply? My e-mail is richtrailer@yahoo.com please put mediation work in the subject line so the mail is not deleted. Thanks!
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 child custody evaluations 
 by Anne Smiley  06/25/07 

Hello!!

In our area, Mid-Michigan, there is a severe shortage of mental health professionals, either psychiatrists or psychologists, who are utilized by the courts and attorneys in providing evaluations for divorce and parenting issues.

We are wondering if other areas of the country are experiencing this same frusttration and what has been done to alleviate it????

I am in the process of drafting an invitational letter to selected judges, family law attorneys and mental health professionals to address this shortage here.

Thank you,

Anne Smiley

 

 

 

 

 

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 shortage of child custody evaluators  
 by Frances H. Thompson  06/27/07 

Yes Idaho is experiencing the same shortage of psychologists and mental health professionals willing to conduct parenting (or custody) evaluations.  The shortage is happening for two reasons, 1) because the mental health professionals are no longer willing to be part of the adversarial process realizing how harmful it is to the family, and 2) because the evaluators are getting caught up in legal action against them for making custody recommendations.  One of the best evaluators in our largest urban area was recently sued by an unhappy parent and he said “That’s it – I’m no longer doing these.”  So now Ada County only has 2 people who are wiling to continue doing these evaluations and parents are waiting over 7 months for completion.  

Some of the Idaho courts are turning to “Child & Family Needs Assessment” where information is gathered from parents, collaterals, records reviewed and the information reported back to the court, which does not include custody recommendations but recommendations about what would help the parents move forward and what the children need and how to keep the children safe.  It seems to be working well in the First Judical District and several other districts have expressed a desire to implement the project.  We are also developing some 4 to 6 week therapeutic models to work with high conflict parents and give them information that will help them move toward settlement. 

The shortage of custody evaluators across the state is causing courts to be more creative in how they get cases solved and how the court gets information to improve decision making.  We are also continuing to move in the direction of coordinating information from other court cases like the Child Protection case and Domestic Violence case with the family divorce/custody case so all the court information gets to the decision maker and some areas in the state are doing a “unified family Court” model by moving several or all the cases under one judge so the decision maker has access to more information that way.

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 how many styles do you use? 
 by Duane Ruth-Heffelbower  01/19/05 

Yes Idaho is experiencing the same shortage of psychologists and mental health professionals willing to conduct parenting (or custody) evaluations.  The shortage is happening for two reasons, 1) because the mental health professionals are no longer willing to be part of the adversarial process realizing how harmful it is to the family, and 2) because the evaluators are getting caught up in legal action against them for making custody recommendations.  One of the best evaluators in our largest urban area was recently sued by an unhappy parent and he said “That’s it – I’m no longer doing these.”  So now Ada County only has 2 people who are wiling to continue doing these evaluations and parents are waiting over 7 months for completion.  

Some of the Idaho courts are turning to “Child & Family Needs Assessment” where information is gathered from parents, collaterals, records reviewed and the information reported back to the court, which does not include custody recommendations but recommendations about what would help the parents move forward and what the children need and how to keep the children safe.  It seems to be working well in the First Judical District and several other districts have expressed a desire to implement the project.  We are also developing some 4 to 6 week therapeutic models to work with high conflict parents and give them information that will help them move toward settlement. 

The shortage of custody evaluators across the state is causing courts to be more creative in how they get cases solved and how the court gets information to improve decision making.  We are also continuing to move in the direction of coordinating information from other court cases like the Child Protection case and Domestic Violence case with the family divorce/custody case so all the court information gets to the decision maker and some areas in the state are doing a “unified family Court” model by moving several or all the cases under one judge so the decision maker has access to more information that way.<

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 "Styles" 
 by Jim Melamed  01/20/05 

My read:  While it is quite possible that certain mediators may emphasize a particular approach, I see that virtually all mediators use a variety of approaches.  Whatever will best and will get the job done.

Surely, if participants want an "evaluative" approach, this may impact the mediator they select.  A subject matter expert may be needed.  If a "facilitative" approach is desired, then subject matter expertise may be less critical.  I suppose that to get "Transformative," you might want someone who has had such training . . .  but there is great debate as to whether these kind of things really make a difference.  Participants have certain needs and, whatever they are, the mediator is wise to recognize and deliver on, either directly or with the assistance of others.

Bottom line, I believe most mediators are eclectic and flexible. 

Critically, it is worth recognizing that mediators may well do different things at different times. 

So, we may start out "facilitative" to be educated and help the folks do as much as possible through problem solving.  That may get us a good way down the field.  But we may need more mediator centric approaches ("guessing," "heat," evaluation, others) to help get the ball past the goal line. 

As participants at all times retain complete decision-making power, there is lessened concern about imposition, but it can be argued that mediator centric approaches are more dependent on the subject matter perceptions of the mediator. 

Jim Melamed

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 how many styles do you use? how many styles do you use?  
 by Edward Burton  01/21/05 
About as many as there are to have .... This is all rather intuitive for me, and I deliberately select a style only when a log jam needs to be broken. With family mediation there is of course a range of problems to be dealt with, and communication between biological parents is critical for long-term solutions. I do tend to push them in the direction of working on that first. In rural areas with a heightened sense of privacy narration is sometimes the only way to open up people. Voluntarily talking about feelings is not customary for them at all. One size never fits all, as well. After all, in mediation one is free to ignore the legal strait-jackets. (Don't get mad -- I am an attorney also )
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 Welcome to the ACR Family Section Meeting Hall 
 by Jim Melamed  01/19/05 
About as many as there are to have .... This is all rather intuitive for me, and I deliberately select a style only when a log jam needs to be broken. With family mediation there is of course a range of problems to be dealt with, and communication between biological parents is critical for long-term solutions. I do tend to push them in the direction of working on that first. In rural areas with a heightened sense of privacy narration is sometimes the only way to open up people. Voluntarily talking about feelings is not customary for them at all. One size never fits all, as well. After all, in mediation one is free to ignore the legal strait-jackets. (Don't get mad -- I am an attorney also <
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